“I’ll Start Someday”: Why Waiting for Perfect Timing Is Keeping You Silent

Oct 14, 2025

There is a phrase that slips easily from the lips of women who feel called but hesitant: “I’ll start someday.” It sounds harmless, even wise. The timing doesn’t feel right. The kids are still young. The money isn’t there. The fear is too loud.

But someday often never comes. The vision that once burned bright fades into the background. The calling feels heavier, not lighter. And the silence grows louder than the dream.

The truth is, waiting for perfect timing is one of the most common ways Kingdom-minded women silence themselves. And while you wait, the women who need your voice are left waiting too.

Here’s why waiting for “someday” is costing you more than you realize, and how to move from delay into action.

Perfect timing does not exist

Life will always have challenges. There will always be something that makes starting feel inconvenient. And if you wait for the stars to align, you may be waiting forever.

Perfect timing is a myth that whispers comfort. It convinces you that the delay is wisdom when in reality, it is fear. Fear of failure. Fear of judgment. Fear of stepping into the unknown.

Ecclesiastes 11:4 says, “Whoever watches the wind will not plant; whoever looks at the clouds will not reap.” If you keep waiting for conditions to look perfect, you will never sow the seed. The harvest requires planting even when the ground feels uncertain.

Delay becomes disobedience

When God stirs your heart with a calling, it isn’t meant to sit idle. He trusts you with assignments that matter. Saying “someday” may feel safe, but over time, it becomes disobedience.

Think of Moses. When God called him, he hesitated. He listed excuses. He doubted his own voice. Yet God reminded him, “Now go; I will help you speak and will teach you what to say” (Exodus 4:12). The call was urgent, not optional.

Your calling carries that same urgency. The women waiting on your obedience don’t need you “someday.” They need you now.

Waiting creates heaviness, not peace

Many women believe that putting off their vision will bring relief. They think pushing the dream aside will quiet the pressure. But delay does not create peace. It creates heaviness.

The longer you silence your calling, the heavier it feels. The dream does not disappear; it lingers in the background, tugging at you when you pray, whispering when you lay awake at night. That weight isn’t meant to crush you. It’s meant to move you forward.

Peace comes from obedience, not from waiting. Once you take even the smallest step, the heaviness begins to lift.

Progress begins with imperfect steps

One of the biggest reasons women wait for “someday” is the belief that everything must be perfect before they start. The website must be flawless. The business plan complete. The finances lined up. The confidence strong.

But God does not require perfection to move. He requires obedience.

The first steps may feel small. Writing the first blog post. Setting up a simple Zoom gathering. Sharing your story on social media. None of it has to be polished. It just has to be faithful.

Perfection delays. Progress requires imperfect beginnings.

Silence keeps others waiting

Your silence does not only affect you. It affects the women who were meant to hear your story, learn from your lessons, and walk in the space you create.

When you say, “I’ll start someday,” you are not only keeping yourself stuck, you are keeping someone else from healing, learning, or finding hope.

Your calling was never meant to stay locked inside of you. It was designed to flow outward, to bless, to encourage, to build. Every day you delay is a day someone else waits for what God has given you to release.

Romans 10:14 reminds us, “How can they hear without someone preaching to them?” Your obedience becomes someone else’s breakthrough.

The risk of waiting outweighs the risk of starting

Starting feels risky. You might fail. You might face criticism. You might stumble along the way. But the risk of waiting is far greater.

When you wait, you lose time. You lose momentum. You lose opportunities that may never circle back. Most of all, you risk losing the joy of walking in the fullness of your calling.

Yes, starting may feel shaky, but starting creates movement. And movement is what God blesses.

Obedience carries grace for the season you’re in

God doesn’t call you when everything is perfectly aligned. He calls you where you are. In the middle of motherhood. In the middle of work. In the middle of healing.

The grace for your assignment is not waiting in the future, it’s here today. If He called you now, He equipped you now. The strength will meet you as you move.

Think of the woman with the jar of oil in 2 Kings 4. She didn’t wait until she had plenty. She poured out what she had, and God multiplied it. The same is true for you. Use what is in your hands. Trust Him to multiply it.

Final Thoughts

Someday is not a strategy. Someday is a thief. And if you keep waiting for the perfect moment, you may wait your whole life.

You already have everything you need to begin, a vision from God, a story that matters, and a voice that can make a difference. What you need now is the courage and support to step into it with confidence.

That’s why the Faith-To Business Masterclass was created. It’s a transformational experience designed to help faith-driven women like you stop delaying and start walking boldly in the call God has placed on your life. Inside this masterclass, you’ll gain clarity, learn practical strategies for launching your ministry or business, and find the confidence to move forward, right now, not someday.

Don’t wait for the perfect timing, create it.

Join the masterclass today, and take your first bold step toward what God has already called you to do.